Picking Up Women With Pick Up Lines

Written by: joycelyn.bartosik.j
Date: Tue, 2 Mar 2010

Some pick up lines are unbecoming, boring and rude.

How many times have we heard cheesy pick up lines like:



"Are you a parking ticket? Because you're a little fine!"

"Do I know you from somewhere?"

"Your daddy must have been a thief, because he stole the stars and put them in your eyes."

Let's face it - if you use lines like these on a girl, she's not going to give you the time of day.

But because the bad pick up lines get so much attention, people think ALL pick up lines are like this.

And this just isn't true.

A good pick up line will ACTUALLY help you pick up a woman.

The true point in using pick up lines is to begin a conversation.

That is all.

After the woman begins talking with you, then you work your magic of getting her to date you, her telephone number and the emotional connection.

If you cannot begin a conversation, you can do little else.

You want something more that just talking to a woman; you want to engage her in a good conversation. Drawing her into your conversation is the only means of continuing your relationship journey.

Do you know that good pick up lines do just that?

It is natural to be nervous when going out to meet women, being unsure what to say; however, most often you miss your chance to meet a good woman, simply because it takes to long to think up something to say.

That is why it's important to know one or two good pick up lines that actually WORK. Because for those situations where you can't be original, you need something to help you take action!

But don't be fooled into thinking you can get away with a line like:

"Do I know you from somewhere?"

This is lame pick up line and women know it, this is not a clever pick up line and makes you look bad.

Also, doing things like asking for directions, telling a girl she looks like a certain celebrity, and complimenting her on a piece of clothing are BAD ways to pick a girl up.

Why is this?

These lines do not engage the woman, since once she answers you; the conversation has nowhere to go.

Good pick up lines avoid "yes and no" answers. They are about getting the girl to think about her response, evoking an emotional reaction, and making her WANT to continue to communicate with you.

So how do you engage a girl?

Asking her opinion of something is the easiest way to do this, since each woman has an opinion and they like sharing their ideas, especially about relationships.

So to give you an example, you could say something like: "Hey, can I get your opinion on something real quick? Do you think it's wierd for a woman to try and get pregnant because she wants her baby to be born under a certain astrological sign? I really want to hear a woman's perspective on this."

Once you engage her in the conversation you may follow up with a tale of some woman who wants to be sure she and her children are astrologically compatible, to make life a bit more enjoyable as life moves along.

This leads to all kinds of different conversation topics, things like:

1. Astrology

2. Children

3. Marriage

4. Marriage

5. Relationships

The numerous ideas for conversations are unlimited. Here you will find a few of my favorite follow-ups.

"Are you a believer in astrology?" (This can begin conversations about destiny and fate.)

"What is your sign?" (No matter what she says - be sure to mention your sign is compatible with hers!)

"Do you like kids? You seem like the nurturing type."

This could go on forever, surely, you get the idea.

A good pick up line design draws a woman into an interestingly deep conversation, while allowing you the opportunity of getting to know one another better and becoming familiar with one another.

This is how you begin conversations.

At this point, it's the easiest thing in the world to get a phone number from a girl, and possibly even set up a first date.

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